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Huge 3 family yard sale! Antiques,
collectibles, household items, party
decorations, textiles. Baseball,
basketball and auto racing trading
cards. Electronics, toys, and fabrics.
At 1428 East Maple Ave. El Segundo
90245. Starts at 7AM on Saturday,
December 11th and goes till 3PM.
Apartment For Rent
950 Pepper Street Unit A. 2
Bedrooms 1 Bathroom. Rent
$2,295.00. Please call Robert to
view @ 310-701-8875
Employment
Looking for a CNC machinist and
a mechanical assembly technician
for the robotic industry (Glentek, El
Segundo). Tasks for the technician
include soldering, fastening, and
the usage of power and hand tools.
Call Cristian Galvan (310) 322-3026
Wanted
WANTED. Vinyl, records, vinyl,
anything musical. Collectibles/
antiques. Typewriters, sewing
machines, military, silver, Japan,
records, stamps, coins, jewelry,
Chinese, ANYTHING. Buy/Sell/Trade.
We sell for you on EBAY. Studio
Antiques, El Segundo. 310.322.3895.
Office Space for Lease
MANHATTAN BEACH OFFICE
SUITE: Strategically located in
the heart of Manhattan Beach,
505 N. Sepulveda Boulevard is
approximately 897 square feet of
space consisting of 2 private offices,
2 bathrooms and an open work area.
Priced at $2,950 per month plus
electricity. Agent George Russell
310-245-0893
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Your Neighborhood Therapist
Dear Neighborhood Therapist,
I love my dad. We’ve gotten along well
for the most part, but I am slowly coming to
realize that we are very different, and we’re
never going to see eye to eye on a lot of things,
especially when it comes to my life and career
choices. He is a good father, and has been quite
successful in life, but he seems to think that
that gives him the right to tell me how to live
my life. He is very dismissive when I disagree
with him. I still depend on him financially, and
I’m also sure that he would support me a lot
more financially if I were to choose a different
career, even if it doesn’t pay any better.
This doesn’t seem fair to me. Can I change
his mind? How? How far should I push him?
– Broke For Now, El Segundo
Dear Broke,
You’re in a real pickle. Sadly, in the context
of a relationship, having money often means
having power. As long as money has existed
people have used it to get what they want. You
might be right, but so what if you are? That
doesn’t change the situation if your dad is set
in his position. So much of what happens next
depends on your own preferences, which is
why I have more questions than answers for
both of you.
For your dad:
Is he withholding further help because he
thinks your choices would be destructive, or
just different than the ones he would make?
At what age did your dad realize that his
parents did not have all the answers and were
not correct about everything? How did that happen?
Is that the standard he is holding you to?
At what age did your dad realize that in fact
he had all the answers? What is his position
on your ability to draw your own conclusions
about what is best for you, and under what
circumstances might he determine that you
are capable of reaching these conclusions
yourself? (If his answer is “never,” that’s good
information for you to have.)
In the meantime, there are some hard questions
for you, too:
What is the cost - both financially and
professionally - of not doing what he wants
you to do?
How badly do you want to pursue your
chosen field?
Is your dad’s lack of material support truly
the thing that is getting in the way of making a
living doing it? How far along would you be if
you had no support from him, or anyone else?
You could make all of the best arguments,
and he might agree with them, but it’s going to
take him some time to process because people’s
minds rarely change on a dime about anything.
Nobody likes to be confronted with facts that
don’t fit the narrative they have constructed.
You mentioned that you have mostly a
good relationship. Try to find a space where
you can ask each other these hard questions.
Often, when it comes to people we love, we
find it’s not worth being as rigid as we want to
be - especially when we see that we are hurting
the people we want to protect. He’s going to
have to arrive at that same conclusion. If he
doesn’t, there is no shame in compromising
in exchange for a better material or financial
position. Almost all of us do this at some point
in our lives to one degree or another.
Please write to tom@tomandrecounseling.
com or text to 310.776.5299 with questions
about handling what is affecting your life,
your family, the community or the world.
Tom Andre is a Licensed Marriage & Family
Therapist (LMFT119254). The information
in this column is for educational purposes
only and nothing herein should be construed
as professional advice or the formation of a
therapeutic relationship. •
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